Question and answer about discrimination in workplace


Query
My mom died about one year before, and my dad recently moved in with my loved ones.   He spends time with the children after school, makes dinner a couple of times per week, and helps out with errands that are difficult to get done if you work full time, such as taking the vehicle for service.  We love having him here, and he's enjoying being a part of a noisy household again.

The only thing which isn't exercising is my occupation.  As soon as I took off time to help my father go, my boss said that I shouldn't bring him to reside with my loved ones.  She explained, "He might appear fine today, but in a couple of years then you’ll be spending all your time caring for him.  The situation would require more traveling, among other matters, and she stated she didn't believe it was reasonable to expect me to fly at a minute’s note, given my "duties in your home.” Is this lawful? is it a kind of discrimination in the workplace?

 

Response
 This may be known as "health care vaccinations ": treating an employee differently due to their responsibilities to take care of other people, whether children, parents, or other relatives.

Discrimination against professionals isn't prohibited per se.  Caregiving duties aren't a safe group, such as race, sex, or handicap.  In certain scenarios, an employer may be justified in making conclusions based on a worker’s duties to take care of others.  As an instance, if an employee has used up all his off time, and proceeds to miss work due to childcare issues, the employer may fire or discipline the employee because of poor attendance.  The worker is in a difficult place, but finally, the employer doesn't need to keep somebody on who will have done the job, for any reason.

If, however, the company’s choice relies on a secure trait, the scenario varies.   As an instance, suppose that female worker who missed work because of childcare problems weren't fired, but man workers were?  The employer may be creating a gender-based premise that it was okay for girls to put their families, but not for guys.  This could be prohibited discrimination.

 

In your scenario, the matter isn't so clear cut.  It seems like your dad has really let you dedicate additional time and energy into your job; Quite simply, your "caregiving duties” harbor’s influence your work in any way, past your primary time off.  Nonetheless, your boss is creating another premise, both about how long you're in fact paying to care for your dad and about how you'll prioritize your life later on.  This premise could well be contingent on the sex stereotypes that girls are more inclined to put family before the tasks, to carry on caregiving functions in the household, etc.

 

Whether you are facing discrimination, nevertheless, you're definitely considering an unfair situation.  Your boss might not know that she's making assumptions about you personally.  Thus, your first step must be to meet together and clarify the truth.  Inform her that your dad is busy and assisting your loved ones, that you're totally capable to travel and carry out the other duties linked to the marketing, and which you want to be considered for the task.  

 

Be frank about your concern that she's judging your ability to perform your job based on wrong assumptions she's producing around you and your loved one's life.  Ask her to think about you for the advertising based solely upon your work performance and techniques.

This dialog might be all you have to get back on the right track.    Whether your boss is really engaged in prohibited discrimination, your organization has a solid interest in considering employees for advertising on their own values, not on the basis of unfounded stereotypes or assumptions.

For more info please consult with a professional discrimination attorney.